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My brother Uche

My name is Iheoma. I am the third girl of my mother and her last born. My mother is the third wife of my father, Papa Uche. Brother Uche is the only male child in our family and my mother's first born, which was why my mother had the status of the favourite wife in the house. Altogether, my father had twelve children in the house and three wives. To be clear, we were fourteen females and two males in the house, meaning overplenty of drama every day in Ukunu! Unusual it was but my brother was not spoilt like other only sons. It seemed like God had given him a special nature that our parents could not influence, a brain like computer and a tall physique that farmwork had buffed well. If our mother favoured him with a juicy and thick piece of meat, Brother Uche would manage to cut small for me without our mother seeing him. My mother said that the day she gave birth to me, the labour pangs caught her unexpectedly while at the farm. Uche was the only one there to help her because ...

Simplicity of Me, Complexity of We

If I am granted one  sure banker  wish, it would probably be to be in heaven, free from the stress and strains of earth and all its inhabitants. The main challenge is that I would have to be dead,  un- alive, six feet under… unless rapture happened like now. That would really make things easy for me, wouldn’t it. But if rapture happens, a number of Christians would also be raptured and around in heaven.  But would they still portray their complex human nature in heaven? Would they exhibit the wide range of human emotions that makes living so chaotic? I hope not! Life has been good to me and it has also been hard. It has dealt me blows I am still reeling from but it also makes me laugh a lot. It has not been fair, it has not been kind, it has not been all beautiful, it has not always been caring. It has been refreshing as well as frustrating, annoying but downright amazing too. Life has been life, I guess, I am not sure. My experiences cannot adjudge the varie...